Mindfulness Meditation Circle

Note that there is a new passcode from February 15, 2024. Email ZoomInfo@dbsaboston.org for the Zoom passcode. If you don’t receive an auto-reply with the passcode, email Khare@dbsaboston.org.

Sunday at 9:30 a.m. ET

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Welcome to the peer-led DBSA Boston Mindfulness Meditation circle. It’s free and open to all.

The Alpaca (in a rabbit hole) represents the group’s acronym for cultivating mindfulness: ALPACA (Awareness, Loving and Peaceful Acceptance, Constructive Action). The rabbit hole reminds us to keep exploring with curiosity. Thanks to Rivka, Scott, Carolyn, Jules, and others in the group!

Mindfulness Meditation Circle Guidelines

• 1. We welcome everyone with all meditation experience levels, from beginners to those with a more established practice. You do not need to be a DBSA Boston member.
  2. Please, no discussion of religion, politics, or current events. 
  3. We would love to see your face, though if you prefer to be off-camera, that is okay, too.
  4. You may join and leave at any time.
  5. All DBSA Boston Guidelines For DBSA Groups and Meetings must also be followed.
  6. By joining this meditation circle, you agree to hold DBSA Boston and all meditation facilitators harmless in case of discomfort.

On Sunday, May 5, we will continue with Chapter 2: Externals

From the Introduction:

We should stake our well-being on what we can control and let go of attachment to what we cannot. We generally can’t control events, or the opinions or behavior of others, or whatever else is outside ourselves. The Stoic thus considers money, fame, misfortunes, and the like to be “externals” and regards them with detachment. A Stoic still has preferences about those things, and so would prefer to avoid adversity and would rather have wealth than not have it. But attachment to those
desires or fears is considered a guarantee of anxiety, and a form of enslavement to whoever controls the objects of them. In sum, it is against Stoic policy to worry about things that you can’t control. What we can control and should care about are our own judgments and actions.
To put these first two points together: we get attached to things beyond our control, and this brings us misery; we are oblivious to features of our thinking that we can control and that, if managed better, would bring us peace. Stoicism tries to make us conscious of this pattern and reverse it.

1. Purpose: Our primary purpose in this meeting is to discuss principles and techniques to enhance our mindfulness practices and their application to our daily lives. This is not a support group.
2. Focus on Meaningful Topics: To maintain our focus, we will avoid engaging in personal, political, religious, or racial critiques or debates on controversial or hateful issues that could be disruptive and disturbing to the group.
3. Respectful and Safe Environment: We strive to create a respectful and safe space for all community members to share their thoughts and experiences without fear of judgment or criticism.
4. No Interruptions: Please refrain from interrupting a speaker. If you wish to contribute or share your thoughts, raise your hand, and you will be given an opportunity to speak.
5. Practice Self Focus: Share and speak about your own experiences and responses, avoiding assumptions about the experiences of others or speaking on behalf of the entire group.
6. Move Up / Move Back: Encourage balanced participation by all members. Be mindful of who is speaking and who is not; if you talk often, consider allowing others to share more.
7. Practice Mindful Listening: Be fully present and engaged in listening to others. Avoid planning your response while listening, and be open to learning and being surprised.
8. Confidentiality: Respect the privacy of others by not identifying anyone other than yourself when sharing what was discussed in the session. If you wish to follow up with someone about their comments, ask for their consent first.

Following these guidelines can create a nurturing and supportive environment for personal growth and deepen our mindfulness practices.

Six ways to make your life easier and more peaceful – by using stoic principles – By Brigid Delaney (Author of “Reasons Not to Worry”)

And to each member of our mindfulness community, we extend our sincere appreciation. Your presence, participation, and contributions breathe life into this circle and make it all possible. Thank you for being part of this journey.